Wednesday, August 02, 2006
bloggin bloggin..
jux reached home..
i really wanna buy a fone!!!!!!!!!!!
haiz..but guess still not e time..
mux think of e consequence if i buy..
sian la..=(
went party world on mon.
zhanyi last day..sad..i'm gonna miss him..
who's gonna go help take mails..?
who's gonna buy food for us?
who's gonna listen to my complains?
who's gonna fold paper cranes with me?
gonna miss u bro lin....
actually got a lot to blog..but den forgot wat i did last weekend..
wahaha..
to e two stupid gals who keep askin me to update my blog.....
I DID IT!!! wahaha...rmb to meet up soon...
i wan another HIGH gathering..it's gonna get hotter.
gettin along quite well with him.
but guess i keep having lots of swings till he cant stand me..
sorry dear..maybe i'm jux too hard to understand..
i read this in e bk 'happiness now'
-trying to change pple is mostly a bad idea..why?
becos it doesnt work.u'll get frustrated n they hate you!
eg. let's say tat my life is a mess.i'm out of control,and everyone sees it.
frenx give me advice and i ignore it.
soon enuff...KABOOM!
i get fired,i go bankrupt....or i got arrested.
i'm shattered!but becos i'm shattered,i start to pay attention!
i change my behaviour.i change my life!
Positive change is a natural process.Frequently it unfolds like this:
step 1:stupidity,followed by
step 2:disaster
step 3:desperation and finally
step 4:wisdom.
we need each step.if u force change upon others,u disrupt e process.
u say"but it's painful to watch other pple being stupid!'
RIGHT!but if u force them to change,they don learn.
(parents n policemen sometimes need to force pple !MOst other times,we best let others make theirs own mistakes)
haha..find this very meaningful..more coming up..
